Dating and hes disappeared

Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married.

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and he was at a party, said he would call me later. and left me a voicemail saying he was sorry he didn’t call earlier, that he would’ve invited me but I wouldn’t have had any fun because it was mostly a bunch of guys.

So on Monday I sent him a text asking what he was doing, and he never responded.

Listen, Charlene, your last paragraph smacks of passive victimhood.

And all I’m trying to do here is smack you out of it.

I asked him if he was seeing someone else and he said no.

I told him that he could’ve at least had the courtesy to take two minutes out of his suddenly busy life to call me to say he wouldn’t be available due to being busy.

So here’s what I want you to understand: He WAS honest with you.

You are the one who is not being honest with herself. He TOLD you not to come over unannounced, and, in not calling for two weeks, he pretty much TOLD you he wasn’t interested.

I started dating in earnest a little later than most and I didn’t have the benefit of Evan’s sage advice and it took me a long time to learn that if a man does not call back it wasn’t there for him.

Yes it irritates me if a man says he’ll call back & then doesn’t, but that, itself is a sign.

All I ask for is a little honesty, if he doesn’t want to see me anymore for whatever reason, just be a man and end it with a little dignity. It’s not like we had only gone out a couple times, we spent a fair amount of time with each other and I thought that if anything else, he would always be a friend.

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