Dating in the workplace key players

What I mean is that I like them right where they are…

I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.

His profile pic is a very handsome man, caucasian looking. Things went great the first few days until he started asking me for money telling me his child has malaria and needs to medication.

I haven't responded yet because my alarm bells went off straight away. But I told him I didn't have it and he asked if I could send him a credit card.

If you need to request time off he himself can do so without any money coming out of your pocket. He was clearly trying to charm me, sending me a video of that titanic song and stuff. This man claims he is a doctor with the UN in Afghanistan. Plans on retiring when he is done in 15 months, and opening a hospital.

I didn't let him get to the point of asking me for money.

Please take this warning and be very careful and forget about how you feel when you find out, and get them reported to whoever you can. I woke up this morning to a fb request from a guy called Dr James Bryan. He is definitely a good looking man and tells you everything a woman wants to hear.

His profile says he is from Houston, Texas, is an orthopaedic surgeon in the US Army, that he graduated from Westpoint and currently lives in Germany(possibly stationed there with the Army if true). He said he was a doctor and that his wife has passed and he has a five-year-old son.

The best advice I can give you is if anyone asks for money or your bank details to transfer money into - cut them off totally and report them to the site you originally met on.

I also did some checking on other sites and also facebook and reported him on each site in a hope that nobody else can be conned by him.

My point in all of this is that if you withdraw, you will most likely get him to put in more effort, but that will only take you so far.

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