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There were forces working against us and I didn’t want to make things worse by being unaccommodating.

My schedule was more flexible than his so it made sense that I should work around his schedule, right?

At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!

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My last blog on top dating mistakes women make caused an uproar among male readers who complained my advice encouraged women to “play games.” Not a huge surprise, since the most common dating blunders are a boon to lazy men looking for casual flings.

When you are overly accommodating to him then he doesn’t feel a real push or motivation to step up and invest in you. You know you can get to it at any time so you don’t really feel an urgency.

When you are so desperate for his approval and so accommodating to his schedule, then he doesn’t feel a need to step up or lock you down because…why should he?

On the night of our first date, I had to delay our meeting time by a few hours because I forgot I was supposed to be having dinner with some friends.

When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.

What it really comes down to is being a woman who values herself and is confident in who she is.

When you are this person, you won’t have to “play games” and will naturally activate a man’s natural desire to pursue.

Do you want to turn back the aging clock without any needles, surgery or expensive 10 step facial regimes?

When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.

I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.

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